Note: I had intended to post this blog after I was 24 weeks along, but then we moved up the gender reveal party by a couple of weeks so this post is coming a few weeks early!
I did a bunch of these test when I was pregnant with Jordie and I loved seeing how wrong I was when all was said and done and he came out a boy! I think these tests are part of the reason why I was so surprised when Jordie did come out a boy...I was SURE I was having a girl. And this is another reason why I'm glad this time that we decided to find out.
Here are the tests, and their results for me for this pregnancy!
Chinese Calendar - You put in your age and the month of conception into the online form and it tells you whether you are will be having a boy or a girl. My result: I tried 4 different ones I found online and the results were 1 for girl and 3 for BOY! Today when I was putting this post together I came across the one below and it also said GIRL, but was definitely wrong for James and with Jordan I can't remember whether I conceived in late August or very early September so it may or may not be right for him. I definitely doubt the #1 most accurate badge though!
Baking Soda Test - Put a tablespoon of baking soda in a glass. Add some urine to the baking soda. If it fizzes like a shaken soft drink you are having a boy. If it does nothing then it's a girl. My result: BOY!
String Test - Tie your wedding band to a piece of string. Hold the string so it hangs down in front of your belly, it should start moving on its own. If it swings in a circular pattern you are having a boy. If it moves in a straight line then it's a girl. My result: GIRL!
Beauty - If you feel more beautiful during pregnancy it's a boy, less beautiful it's a girl. My result: Definitely less beautiful this time around. I feel like the bags under my eyes are so terrible and I spend most of my days feeling just exhausted. It's hard to want to do anything, let alone do my hair or dress nicely! So I would say for this one it's a GIRL.
Heart Rate - If baby's heart rate is above 145 at 20w scan then it's a a girl. If under 145 it's a boy. My result: At both my 15 and 18 week doctor's appointments the heartbeat was 150. I didn't ask at the 20 week ultrasound what it was though! So I guess based on the above description I'm going to go with GIRL on this one!
Cravings - Sweets = girl. Savory = boy. My result: BOY! I'm a picky eater though and I've never been a huge sweets person and have always loved my salty treats!
Mommy intuition - BOY all the way! I just feel inside of me that it's another little man that will be joining our family in the Spring!
Boy = 4
vs
Girl = 3
ooohhh...it's close this time...but I'm still going with boy!
Edit: I had almost completed this post and intended to publish it on the day of the party but then I got too distracted and didn't get it done so here it is now!
For the first few weeks that we knew we were pregnant (and weren't telling anyone yet) we didn't think we wanted to find out baby's gender (we didn't with J and J). Once we started telling people and the questions started about whether we would or wouldn't do it Jim and I started to talk more seriously about it and decided that maybe it would be best if we did. I wanted to be prepared as best as I could and wanted the boys to be prepared too. I also really didn't want to be dealing with getting rid of bins upon bins of boy crap if it was a girl, or scrambling to get girl stuff either. On that note: if you need baby boy stuff let me know! :)
Those moments in the delivery room when Jim announced the genders to me were very special for us when we had the boys and it was those moments that I had to think long and hard about in deciding whether I was okay with giving that up this time. We could have found out during the 20 week ultrasound but it just didn't seem as special to me to find out in an ultrasound room at the hospital, even if we were all together. I wanted something big, and memorable for both us and the boys.
I knew this was definitely my last chance to do something fun like this and I decided to go for it...and thankfully my wonderful hubby was on board with my crazy plan. I decided that if I wasn't going to find out with just him and me on baby's birth day that I was going to find out with all of the most important people in our world. I wanted to see the reactions of my friends and family when they found out our baby's gender too. I wanted it to be a really special moment for our whole family and one that the boys would remember for years to come and one that we could tell the baby about too. We are very fortunate to have so many amazing people in our lives that love us and our kids and I wanted all of them to be there with us for this huge moment.
Plus I had seen gender reveals all over the place and wondered what it would be like...and I knew it would make for a great blog too! So my first step was asking my talented photog friend Jenn to take photos of the reveal and then I asked Jen from Cake Baby if she would make the cake that we would cut into. This was a huge step in trust because she was the ONLY one, apart from the doctor and the tech, that knew what baby was before we did. We had originally planned the party for January 21st but once we had the envelope in our hands on December 23rd I knew I wanted to do it before I returned to work. We moved the party to the 2nd and started making some basic plans. Our goals was to make it easy and it really was. Thankfully my parents agreed to my scheme and agreed to host the party at their house. Even though it was very loud with just about 40 people there (including 13 kids), I know my mom wouldn't have had it any other way! My dad on the other hand...he would have been perfectly fine if we'd done it somewhere else. Anyways, enough about how we got to the party...here are the pictures and videos from one of the best nmoments of my whole entire life. It was EVERYTHING I had hoped it would be and there wasn't a single person there that I could have imagined doing the party without. All of my closest girlfriends were there, most of their husbands, and almost all of their kids too. It was just an overall really special night and from the bottom of my heart I truly THANK YOU all for coming. And for the hundreds of comments...and thousands of views of our video....I appreciate all of the love and support more than you will ever know. Thanks for being part of our exciting reveal.
First up is my favorite photo of the whole night...this is the moment that we all realized that our newest little love is going to be a GIRL! I truly LOVE this photo so much and it captures our emotions perfectly. Perfect amount of shock and excitement!
Now going back to the beginning...the knives are in and we were all so excited to finally find out!
A picture from a slightly different angle...this was JUST before I pulled the piece up high enough to see the color of the icing! I love the look of anticipation on everyone's faces...except for Jim who looks a little scared or something :)
And this is just after the top photo where James and I saw the pink and we finally realized! The loud cheers from the crowd gave it away as soon as we saw it too. Jim said at first he didn't see the pink but heard everyone yelling so knew what the color was :)
I think Daddy might be a little happy too! Fist raised and everything!
James's smile in this one is awesome...and even Jordie still looks happy!
His excitement took me away from the tears I felt burning in my eyes!
You can see Jordie starting to get a little miffed at his Dad for taking the knife away.
It looks like I am looking right at Jordie but I will admit I didn't realize at all what was about to happen.
And he's starting to lose it because he didn't understand why he didn't get to eat a piece of the cake right away. That's what started the tears and unhappiness.
There was so much going on that I didn't realize that Jordie was upset so quickly
Oh oh...he's really upset and I'm clearly having a moment with James here! Now keep in mind this whole interaction was less than a minute in length but seeing all of these photos back to back makes it look like I missed out on something. Watch the video posted below and you'll see that as soon as I realized how upset Jordie was that I scooped him right up (even though I knew I wasn't supposed to pick him up!)
My second favorite photo of the whole night...James is pumped and Jordie is sobbing!
I think he was screaming Woohoo at this point! Thanks to Ash who captured this moment perfectly from her spot at the side of the counter.
Another fantastic photo of a very happy James while I console my upset little Jordie boy!
hehehehehehehe....I'm so glad that Shirley kept filming this interaction...it really makes the whole video if you ask me.
Big thanks to Shirley for video taping the reveal for what was supposed to be a FB Live Video (however I had put my privacy settings to Only Me so I could show her how to work it...so when the video was taken it wasn't actually live)...BUT luckily we realized quite quickly (thanks to Shirley's daughter Diana not being able to see it!) and I fixed it within a few minutes so all of the people waiting anxiously to see it could watch it!
Papa checking in on his guy (and giving me a bit of crap for picking Jordie up!)
Reminding me of our deal that if he was right and he "won" that he got to pick a family activity and we weren't allowed to say no.
He even made me shake on it
The last of the photos from after the cake had been cut
OMG...I LOVE this photo too...I just wish Jaxon was in it! It feels a little incomplete without him (oh and maybe Jim and Sean too?!)
Now here is the awesome video of the whole thing. I love this video so much and I am so glad that we decided to do this so we have this memory saved forever.
My sign that I did...that I now realize is crooked...but it was still fun to do!
Looks like surprisingly the final tally was Girl 13 - Boy 15....but if you count all the FB votes it was much heavier to the girl side :)
The absolutely amazingly yummy cake that Jen Mostat made for us. We were so honoured that she said yes to being part of this moment and I was so happy she stayed to watch us cut it too!
Whenever I want to be reminded of the wonderfulness of our news I come back to this photo and smile when I see the pink :)
This picture is how we announced the party and live gender reveal on FB. This video was posted around 1pm and the party was at 6:30 with the cake cutting at 7:00.
And here is the FB Live Video we did announcing the party.
Now the reveal is done...so we'll go back to the beginning and show the lead up photos cause they
are fun too!
Nana and James were on Team Pink
Nana and Papa helping Jordie write his vote up too!
Papa and Jordie were together on Team Blue
Tyanna waffled back and forth and up to this day I think she thought it was a boy, but went with girl at the last minute!
And our family vote just before the majority of people started showing up!
This is awesome...he thought it was a boy and she totally said girl! I love these two...look at them with their little signs and opposite color balloons :)
More kid votes at the party!
This is a photo of the note that was in the envelope from Dr. Strydom. It was very sweet of Jen to save it for me. I think I may frame it and put it on my bedside table.
We got the results in an envelope from Dr. Strydom on December 23rd and decided to throw the gender reveal party as a bit of a surprise last minute party TONIGHT! We asked our cake maker friend Jen a few days ago to switch the date of the party to the 2nd and thankfully she agreed. We excitedly handed off the envelope to her on New Years Eve and have spent the past few days anxiously awaiting the results and finding out the gender of our newest little love with those that are closest to us.
I truly can't believe that today is the day we find out if this baby is another little boy, or a crazy little girl to join our rowdy and loud little crew.
Stay tuned for results later tonight and feel free to cast your vote throughout the day today!
Just a few more hours until one of them will be right!
We are hoping to do a Facebook Live video post right around 7 tonight with the cake cutting! If you aren't on my FB then keep an eye on this blog because I'm sure I'll put up a gender post within the next 24 hours :)
